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The Therapeutic Community: Theory, Model, and Method Review

The Therapeutic Community: Theory, Model, and Method
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I have been working in the addiction treatment field for over 20 years, including in the Therapeutic Community setting. This book is the best overview of the model ever done. It provides a balance of the theory behind the philosophy and interventions of the TC, while also speaking to the specific activities which take place. If you really want to read about the premise of this approach, this book is the place to start.

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With the Phoenix Rising: Lessons from Ten Resilient Women Who Overcame the Trauma of Childhood Sexual Abuse (Jossey-Bass Psychology) Review

With the Phoenix Rising: Lessons from Ten Resilient Women Who Overcame the Trauma of Childhood Sexual Abuse (Jossey-Bass Psychology)
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My therapist gave me this book after I finished therapy and reading the book summed up my life as a resilient survivor. Until I read the book I really didn't realize just how resilient I was. I had always thought of myself as unsuccessful and not useful, but it is amazing to see in print just how successful my life is considering how traumatic and abusive the childhood-adolescent years of my life were. Working in therapy helped more than words can describe, and this book is the closure that I needed. It's nice to know there are so many women who are resilient after such oppressive childhoods. The title really does sum up resiliency in myself and hundreds of other women.

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The devastating effects of childhood sexual abuse have been widely chronicled, validating the difficulty with which many survivors struggle. Often overlooked are the millions of women who have overcome early trauma to lead successful, happy lives. Why do these women-whom we might otherwise have expected to fail-have such tremAndous strength and resilience? This question is at the heart of With the Phoenix Rising as it paints a moving and optimistic portrait of ten women who have overcome the trauma of childhood sexual abuse and shows how their resilient success can be encouraged in others who have suffered similar traumas.

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Childhood Victimization: Violence, Crime, and Abuse in the Lives of Young People (Interpersonal Violence) Review

Childhood Victimization: Violence, Crime, and Abuse in the Lives of Young People (Interpersonal Violence)
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This is an important book whose goal is to conceptualize a new holistic scholarly enterprise which Finkelhor titles "developmental victimology", a field which encompasses (a) studies of conventional crimes in which children are victims (b) studies of child maltreatment including exploitation of child labor and (c) studies of "acts that would clearly be crimes if committed by adults against adults but which... are generally not of concern to the criminal justice system when they occur among or against children, such as sibling violence and assaults between pre-adolescent peers." Finkelhor has much that is new and interesting to say about sibling abuse and the frequency and severity of physical assault by other children and youth in adolescent and pre-adolescent populations; first and foremost, he argues that there are strong empirical grounds for describing physical altercations among children and youth as a form of victimization.
Finkelhor believes that the fragmentation of scholarship around victimization has led to an inadequate understanding of victimization as experiences which cut across specialized studies of child maltreatment, growing up with domestic violence, bullying, youth violence and other categories of youth victimization. An inadequate understanding of child and youth victimization leads, Finkelhor argues, to inadequate social responses and therapeutic interventions. The strongest feature of Finkelhor's book is his explanation of the "tremendous transitivity among victimization risks." Finkelhor asserts that "the risk for a new victimization is three to six times higher for a child who has been victimized previously. Moreover, it appears that any kind of victimization seems to apply, and no particular kind of victimization is far more predictive than others." Children physically assaulted by a caregiver are far more likely to be physically assaulted by a peer; children who are bullied at school are also more likely to be sexually assaulted, he maintains.
Finkelhor is particularly concerned about the developmental prospects of a group of children and youth whom he describes as "poly-victims", i.e., the subset of child victims who have experienced 4 or more separate victimizations in a year; approximately a third of victimized children, as Finkelhor defines the term, meet the criterion for poly-victim. These children and youth have usually had severe victimization experiences and they are by far the most troubled youth; for example, 86% of clinically depressed children and youth in Finkelhor's large Developmental Victimization Survey were poly-victims. According to Finkelhor, this group of children and youth "show signs that they are locked in a pattern or trapped in a downward spiral ... (of victimization and emotional distress)." For these children and youth, "victimization is more a condition than an event." Finkelhor believes that one of the most important diagnostic challenges facing helping professionals is to accurately identify these children, a task made more difficult, if not impossible, by an exclusive therapeutic focus on child maltreatment or youth violence. Poly-victimization occurs equally among males and females and is more common among older youth, according to Finkelhor. Poly-victimization is associated with family disruption and single parent families - but not with poverty or race - Finkelhor asserts, one of the least plausible arguments in the book given the well established association between and among poverty, child maltreatment and single parent family structure.
The most interesting theoretical sections of this book explore possible pathways to poly-victimization: through dangerous family environments characterized by chronic child maltreatment and frequent domestic violence; through family disruption, homelessness and exposure to predatory persons, through dangerous neighborhoods and risky communities and through enduring personal characteristics of the children and youth themselves. Finkelhor hypothesizes that "Some children, for a variety of reasons, appear to act as magnets for victimization," by virtue of irritating temperaments, disabilities and incapacities and/or social stigma and because of behaviors (related to mental health problems) which invite or trigger retaliation.
Finkelhor proposes a developmental model to explain the differential effects of victimization which includes: a child's appraisal of her / his victimization and its meaning, the application of these appraisals to concrete developmental tasks, coping strategies to deal with the aftermath of victimization and environmental buffers. Utilizing this framework, Finkelhor asserts, "we can analyze victimization developmentally for any child by asking (1) how does this child's stage of development affect his or her appraisal, (2) what developmental tasks are at the forefront that may be most prominently impacted, (3) what developmental vocabulary is the stress most likely to be expressed in, and (4) what environmental reactions are likely for this developmental context." Finkelhor is clearly uncomfortable with trauma as the most common organizing concept for understanding the emotional/ behavioral effects of victimization for an obvious reason, i.e., lots of victimization experiences do not qualify as trauma yet have large developmental impacts. Finkelhor asserts that "the study of developmental victimology needs to be expanded substantially from the approach taken in the PTSD literature." Finkelhor wants a discipline of developmental victimology which explores a broad range of victimizations and their effects, especially pandemic victimizations which occur to a majority of children at some point such as peer assault and sibling abuse. Finkelhor stops just short of picking an argument with trauma experts, but he plainly has a different theoretical perspective than trauma theorists and practitioners.
Finkelhor's most provocative chapter is about peer assault and sibling abuse. He comments that surveys indicate that half of children experience violence at the hands of a sibling and a quarter to a third of children are assaulted by a non-sibling peers within any one year. Finkelhor takes dead aim at the assumption that these incidents are mostly minor developmentally normal "kids stuff". Finkelhor maintains that his study of peer and sibling violence found that children, ages 2-5, were more likely to be injured by other children than older children and that "even low frequency peer violence against younger children was significantly associated with elevated trauma symptoms." In addition, Finkelhor found that sibling violence, while often less serious than peer violence, was more likely to be a chronic condition. "Over half of children under 10 years old hit by a sibling in the previous year had experienced five or more such episodes during that year," Finkelhor claims. One fifth of Finkelhor's sample of younger children (under 10 years of age) experienced chronic sibling victimization, "the level at which ( trauma) symptoms increased." Finkelhor believes that parents and schools should be far less tolerant of physical altercations between children of all ages and that CPS social workers should pay more attention to sibling abuse. This is the part of Finkelhor's book most likely to generate heated reactions and possibly lead to substantial changes in social norms, if heeded, given the level of sibling conflict in American families.
Finkelhor revisits the subject of the 15 year decline in child maltreatment, especially sexual abuse and physical abuse, which he has addressed with careful and penetrating analyses in journal articles; and he remains mystified by scholars' and policy makers' lack of interest in the interpretation of this data. Unfortunately, he does not have much to add to the discussion that he and his colleague, Lisa Jones, have not already said so well in their ground breaking articles on this subject.
Finkelhor closes with an interesting and valuable set of proposals for improving child protective service systems. He comments that "law enforcement has devised a successful formula for the creation of a corps of relatively disciplined, well trained and committed professionals who inspire public confidence, using as raw materials individuals who are not particularly highly educated or well paid... They have done this by giving the corps a distinct persona that its members can identify with. They build loyalty through high standards and rigorous training procedures... The child protection system could move toward this model." Finkelhor also advocates for a broader definition of child protection, a definition which would include parent education, prevention and early intervention. Child protection functions should be "leavened" with community service functions, he believes. Finkelhor sees clearly that an effective child protective service system must have a highly committed and socially valued work force which both enforces community norms around parenting and has a role in creating a better community for vulnerable children. System improvements depend critically on work force development and a dramatically different community reputation for child protection work, Finkelhor maintains.
As in all his work, Finkelhor proceeds in a careful analytical way, sorting through explanations, advancing helpful classification systems and making good use of empirical evidence where it exists. Finkelhor has a way of arguing for controversial ideas and proposals in a way which deflects criticism; he is, nevertheless, a stimulating theorist and policy analyst. I question whether in 10 years there will be many developmental victimologists; but in the meantime, Finkelhor has challenged specialists in a way which will hopefully lead to productive and practically important scholarship.

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Children are the most criminally victimized segment of the population, and a substantial number face multiple, serious "poly-victimizations" during a single year. And despite the fact that the priority emphasis in academic research and government policy has traditionally gone to studying juvenile delinquents, children actually appear before authorities more frequently as victims than as offenders. But at the same time, the media and many advocates have failed to note the good news: rates of sexual abuse, child homicide, and many other forms of victimization declined dramatically after the mid-1990s, and some terribly feared forms of child victimization, like stereotypical stranger abduction, are remarkably uncommon. The considerable ignorance about the realities of child victimization can be chalked up to a field that is fragmented, understudied, and subjected to political demagoguery. In this persuasive book, David Finkelhor presents a comprehensive new vision to encompass the prevention, treatment, and study of juvenile victims, unifying conventional subdivisions like child molestation, child abuse, bullying, and exposure to community violence. Developmental victimology, his term for this integrated perspective, looks at child victimization across childhood's span and yields fascinating insights about how to categorize juvenile victimizations, how to think about risk and impact, and how victimization patterns change over the course of development. The book also provides a valuable new model of society's response to child victimization - what Finkelhor calls the Juvenile Victim Justice System - and a fresh way of thinking about barriers that victims and their families encounter when seeking help. These models will be very useful to anyone seeking to improve the way we try to help child victims. Crimes against children still happen far too often, but by proposing a new framework for thinking about the issue, Childhood Victimization opens a promising door to reducing its frequency and improving the response. Professionals, policymakers, and child advocates will find this paradigm-shifting book to be a valuable addition to their shelves.

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Full Recovery: Creating a Personal Action Plan for Life Beyond Sobriety Review

Full Recovery: Creating a Personal Action Plan for Life Beyond Sobriety
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This book is a life changer!
Real life testaments of alcoholism and addiction will bring the reader's personal addictions, struggles and battles to the surface, making these negative issues easier for each and every reader to grasp, understand, and work to resolve within themselves.
READ THIS BOOK WHETHER YOU HAVE A SERIOUS ADDICTION OR NOT! It will make you a better person and guide you to living a happier and healthier life.
I strongly recommend reading this!!!
If you desire to rid your life of the evils of addiction, alcoholism, etc; I emplore you to read this book!
Your future happiness, health, and sobriety are waiting on you to take action.
Your new life begins on page one of this amazing book!
Pick it up like I did and your happiness will soon follow : )

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You've been able to stay alcohol and drug free for a period of time, but something's still missing. Addiction is a physical, spiritual, and emotional disease. Detox deals with the physical aspect, and a 12-step or some other type of spiritually based program teaches you how to remain abstinent. But what about the emotional or mental challenges that must be overcome? Are you ready to move beyond financial scarcity? Are you floundering in an unfulfilling career or personal relationship? These real-world challenges often lead to an uninspired, mediocre recovery and can be major contributors to relapse. It's time to move forward, discover your life's purpose, and reach your full potential. This book is designed to help you design an action plan, create momentum, and achieve results. The universal truths presented here have taken me from being a low-bottom alcoholic/addict to a successful entrepreneur and author with twenty years of continuous sobriety. The suggestions and exercises I present have worked for me and countless others. They will work for you if you choose to let them. So you're sober; what's next? No doubt you achieved sobriety with guidance from someone who knew how to get and stay sober. I speak your language; let me do the same for you on the next step to full recovery. Let me be your life coach on your journey to abundance. Everyone loves a great comeback story. Achieving full recovery is the greatest comeback story you'll ever tell because it will be your own.Full Recovery is a valuable book not only for those in recovery from addictions but also for those looking to grow toward their full potential. This book fills a void in recovery literature specifically addressing life after getting sober. Recovery principles and spiritual concepts are effectively integrated into a framework for readers to apply to their career, relationships, and spirituality. Through real-life examples and action plans, Full Recovery inspires readers to use challenges and adversity as sources of motivation toward creating a productive, meaningful, and successful life.-Sarah Allen Benton, MS, LMHC, author of Understanding the High-Functioning Alcoholic, therapist at the McLean Residence at The Brook, Waltham, Massachusetts (affiliated with Harvard Medical School), and licensed mental health counselor in private practice at Confidential Care, Norwell, MassachusettsFull Recovery is a must-have resource not only for anyone who wishes to deal with addiction but also anyone who wishes to live a full, abundant, and amazing life. Brian McAlister's personal story will inspire those who think they're 'too far gone' to keep going and know that there is hope.-Melissa Bradley, MS, NCC, BCETS, FAAETS, psychotherapy and international clinical trainer on resilience and healingOne of the best how-to books I have read in a long time. This book abounds with information and exercises to live a more abundant life. With Brian's advice, you can't miss.-Frederick T. Reihl, CEO, Freedom House, drug and alcohol treatment center

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Grief: The Mourning After: Dealing with Adult Bereavement, 2nd Edition Review

Grief: The Mourning After: Dealing with Adult Bereavement, 2nd Edition
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I ordered the book Grief the Mourning After 2nd edition by Catherine Sanders and have been very pleased with
it. The book was a great bargain, in new condition, was professionally wrapped for mailing. Most important, it
has been most helpful to me as a grieving spouse. I highly recommend it.

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Reviews from the First Edition. "Written with insight and sensitivity for people in all stages of grief and recovery, this book can be used as a resource for all caregivers, both professional and volunteer..It is essential reading for anyone engaged in bereavement counseling." --Oncology Nursing Forum "This book for caregivers provides a theoretical framework for understanding the process of bereavement and for stimulating further research." --An Annotated Bibliography on Death and Dying "The book offers clear descriptions of the grieving process, well-illustrated with case studies, and practical interventions for assisting the bereaved." --Journal of Palliative Care

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Scarred (Lorimer SideStreets) Review

Scarred (Lorimer SideStreets)
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Becky, a once hopeful, competitive figure-skater, has stopped competing. She knows she has disappointed her parents, especially her mother.
When not out selling real estate, Becky's mother is absorbed in health magazines and planning meals that are designed to "help" her daughter keep the weight off. Thankfully, Becky is not the only target of her mother's desire for perfection. Errol, Becky's older brother, has managed to be a disappointment as well. His hours with a therapist don't seem to help much, as he has dropped out of school and spends all his time in his room building models.
To relieve the pressure, Becky has found a release in cutting herself. Filled with shame and confusion, she is not sure why it helps, but the act of self-mutilation takes away the out-of-control feeling Becky so often experiences. Her best friend is now the Swiss Army knife she keeps in the pencil box on her desk.
Still fond of skating, Becky spends her summer days teaching figure-skating to beginners at a local indoor rink. Working with the little girls keeps her mind busy and gets her out of the house and away from her nagging mother. When one of the girls is about to begin working with Becky's old Olympic-caliber coach, repressed memories of the coach's abuse begin to surface. How can she let this abusive coach mistreat yet another fragile, young skater?
Monique Polak tells Becky's story in direct, no-nonsense prose. The less than 150-page book deals with the increasingly popular teen dilemma of self-inflicted pain. There are suggestions about the underlying causes for cutting and ways regain control. SCARRED is ideal for reluctant readers or anyone wanting more knowledge about cutting and other forms of self-mutilation.
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Becky was once a promising young skating star, but these days she feels numb, disconnected, and very lonely. The only way she knows to relieve pressure is to cut herself. Will Becky have the strength to save another young athlete who's skating down the same path?[Fry Reading Level - 4.4]

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The Real 13th Step : Discovering Confidence, Self-Reliance, and Independence Beyond the 12-Step Programs Review

The Real 13th Step : Discovering Confidence, Self-Reliance, and Independence Beyond the 12-Step Programs
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This book is the "Missing Link."
Dr. Tessina is absolutely correct in observing that yes - the 12 steps are an incredibly valuable program - in fact, perhaps even the only way to stop drinking.
However, one does eventually "grow out" of them in some sense. That is, drinking has stopped for a long period of time, all of the steps have been successfully worked, and the concepts are grasped and implemented into daily living. Then what? To use an analogy, AA becomes somewhat of a broken record player. Some people are ready for the next step, but aren't sure what that is.
What Dr. Tessina shares with us is how to address the mental thought patterns and dependence issues which may have triggered escape through addiction in the first place. If this is not addressed, we have nothing more than a dry drunk on our hands - someone who is not actively drinking, but who still displays qualities identified in addicts.
This book helps one to put the focus squarely on themselves, and introduces us to the concept that no one is coming to "make it better." It is our responsibility to meet our own needs. That epiphany alone is what frees us.

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Tina Tessina asserts that, despite the millions who've found relief from addictive and compulsive habits through 12-step programs, these same programs' insistence that members always keep coming back unwittingly fosters attitudes that can undermine independence, self-confidence, and self-reliance, the foundations of a long, successful, healthy life. The Real 13th Step dispels the bedrock recovery principle that some people are just born with addictive personalities. Instead, Tina Tessina targets the real problem as learned dependency, and she teaches readers how to develop the three central skills of true independence: risk-taking, problem-solving, and coping with failure. She then offers practical advice about applying these principles in every aspect of our lives: relationships, work, decision-making, and managing the continuing temptations of addiction.Readers will discover how to take control of their own lives and remain free of the fear of relapse or setback in their recovery.

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